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Cain and Abel

Creation Part 5 – What is fair, Was it fair, and Is There such a thing as fair??

December 26, 2020

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The story of Cain and Abel is a perfect example of what parents face every day. It begs the question that if Cain felt his Lord’s refusal of his sacrifice was not fair, WHY did he feel that way so strongly…

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Creation Part 4 – Developing Opposite and Opposing Personalities

December 26, 2020

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DOLIF provides a new system for understanding the development of personality and behavior in human psychology. In essence, it informs us that beginning from early family life, and through instinctive SIBLING RIVALRY, people divide into only two  personality types: Favored…

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Creation Part 3 – Bragging, Teasing and Humiliation

December 26, 2020

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The story of Cain and Abel is a classic example of SIBLING RIVALRY brought on by a subtle, but very real, variance in parental LOVE. In this biblical tale of Creation about two brothers, their Maker acted as their Prime Love Giving parent or PLG. The offering made by…

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Creation Part 2 – A Lesson In Favoritism

December 26, 2020

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DOLIF Theory warns us that the Mind of a Child functions by pure Emotion and Instinct. This is contrary to the Adult Mind that is governed by Intelligence, reason and logic. DOLIF alerts us that the first two children in any family are perpetually wrapped up…

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