In DOLIF psychology instinctual SIBLING RIVALRY and parental Favoritism give rise to divergence in personality and behavior among adjacent siblings. But exactly HOW does this come about? It is well understood that parents have the best intentions to raise their children so they can be proud of them. If…
DOLF Theory
Phase 3 – The Development Of Personality And Behavior
Acting on instinct, Emotion-driven thought and primitive reasoning that confines them to their Mind of a Child, the first two children are both burdened by their immature perception of a limited amount of parental LOVE and consumed by their desperation…
Phase 2 – The Beginning Of Sibling Relations
After a year or two, family relationships become settled. PLG and Child 1 engage in a LOVING relationship in their Inner Circle of Love, while the Outer Circle of Love includes the ALG who provides Support, Stability and Security. Over time,…
Phase 1 – The Division Of Parental Roles
As soon as a first child is born, a critical Emotional decision is made that is vital to children but difficult for adults to understand. Parents divide into one…