This is on private mode so nobody sees it but me. See google file called blog 45 YEARS OF KNOWLEDGE This website represents 45 years, or almost half a century, of knowledge. It was gathered from my education, psychology practice…
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Parental Jealousy – Father and Son
Here are two examples of problems between fathers and sons. In both cases the son felt forced to leave the family home before they were ready because of jealousy from their father. In the first case a woman came into…
A Woman Who Wanted to Protect Her Father
A Woman Who Wanted to Protect Her Father A young woman of 27 years came in and informed me that she was very depressed. She had taken leave from work and spent three weeks as an in-patient at a hospital….
Parental Jealousy – Father and Son
Parental Jealousy – Father and Son Here are two examples of fathers who had problems with their sons. Due to jealousy from their fathers, both boys felt forced to leave their family home before they were ready to do so. …
Parental Jealousy – Mother And Daughter
Cindy was a lovely sixteen-year-old girl who came in with both her parents. She was tall, very pretty, and looked me squarely in the eye as she stepped into my office. Mother and father took turns relating that they had…
Emotions as Percentages – Anger
As we discussed with Anxiety and Depression in Parts 1 and 2 of Emotions As Percentages, our goal is to create balanced personalities and patterns of behavior in which people interact as “normal” human beings and experience comfortable amounts of Anxiety, Depression and Anger both personally…
Emotions as Percentages – Depression
As discussed in the blog about Anxiety, the intensity of any one of the three negative Emotions can be represented as ranging on a scale from 1 to 100. To continue applying this same principle to Depression, at a very low or 0% level of…
Emotions as Percentages – Anxiety
We tend to think that a person in good mental health should experience a minimum of the negative feelings of Anxiety, Depression and Anger. That is, for one who is mentally healthy these 3 Emotions should be at very low levels, or preferably non-existent. In percent form, we can say…
Treatment Example 2
Following is an illustration of how identifying the Prime Love Giver resolved a problem with a suicidal child. A family came to see me with their eight-year-old daughter and four-year-old son. The parents had recently decided to have an amicable divorce,…
Creation Part 6 – Conclusions
In the parable about Adam and Eve and their sons Cain and Abel, whether one believes its religious message or not, we begin to see through the DOLIF lens that the example of this family could well be thought of as a forewarning of how life…
The DOLIF Explanation Of Anger
In DOLIF psychology there are 3 essential negative Emotions: Anxiety, Depression and Anger. These three Emotions are built into every person and ready to be used and expressed from the time of birth. The endowment that is unique to humans ans complements the Emotions is the Intellectual potential. This Intellectual power is also…