This is on private mode so nobody sees it but me. See google file called blog 45 YEARS OF KNOWLEDGE This website represents 45 years, or almost half a century, of knowledge. It was gathered from my education, psychology practice…
Let's Change How We Feel
BOOK
This book is dedicated to my father, Daniel Rabie, who was my Prime Love Giver, to my two daughters who were my inspiration, and to my mother, Hanina, who was a gentle soul.
The Canadian edition published by HarperCollins Canada in 1995 is titled: THEY LOVE YOU, THEY LOVE ME NOT, the truth about the family favorite and sibling rivalry. It was released under my hyphenated family name, Vera Rabie-Azoory.
The US edition, titled SIBLING RIVALRY, The Truth About The Family Favorite, was published by Barricade Books, New York in 1999.
In the year 2000 it was translated to Portuguese and published by Editoriales Paulinas, a Catholic press operated by an order of nuns in Brazil. My notion of why a religious press would choose to publish this book is that the philosophy behind DOLF Theory coincides with Christian values. That is, when a child misbehaves, we should focus on bringing the child into the family fold rather than follow disciplinary measures.
N.B. The book is best searched on the internet under author title Vera Rabie-Azoory.
Here are two examples of problems between fathers and sons. In both cases the son felt forced to leave the family home before they were ready because of jealousy from their father. In the first case a woman came into…
A Woman Who Wanted to Protect Her Father A young woman of 27 years came in and informed me that she was very depressed. She had taken leave from work and spent three weeks as an in-patient at a hospital….